There are those out there that do abuse the selfish and only care about their own personal self and neglect their true responsibilities. But thank goodness most of the people I know, including myself, do for our children and family life.
We clean our homes, talk and listen to our friends, do our more than fair share at work, until we cannot seem to do any more. We’re exhausting ourselves during the day and wonder why we cannot sleep right at night for all the schedules we have floating around in our heads. We forget to take care of our selves. Sometimes it is necessary to take a more self healthy and centered stance at taking good care of ourselves at all times.
There is nothing wrong with an occasional glass of wine and indulging in that few minutes alone in a warm bubble bath.
If you can get away with a friend and share in the fun of being self healthy then that can be even more fun. This also goes for our hard working men in our lives too. They need that few minutes after working all day just as we do. The more we work together as a family the more we have been able to find we can divide our selfish time better too. This definitely helps some of our sanity.
So don’t pick on people that demonstrate a little selfish attitude every now and then, you don’t know what stressers are in someone’s life. What a little alone fun time someone can have makes such a difference in the quality togetherness.